remember when Aerosmith defined FINE as
Fucked up Insecure Nerotiv and Emotional.
umm ya thats our family structure right now totally fubar’d … and FINE.
this whole gmil thing turns into more of a mess every day.
NOW… dh’s uncle and aunt have went back to California and have no plans to come back… which leaves MIL with ALOT to do.
Besides being at the hospitis 24/7 she still needs to clean up the house, call Gibson Girls, Call the relator, and make other preparations…
HOWEVER… medically… no one knows what the hell is going on.
Now gmil is having these every other days that are good.
And get this… the good days are the days where she does not take any of her meds. the bad days she takes them and they make her vomit, dazed, confused.. and basically sleep all day long.
BUT… the social worker told mil today that gmil’s good days are when mil is NOT there (or at least when she is not there when gmil wakes up)
So what does this mean? this means that this HUGE stressor is going to continue when mil goes back to Flordia next week.
(FIL is flying in on Friday then they are both flying home next week)
*sigh* dh was talking to his Dad today and he was asking him all of this.
WHO THE HELL KNOWS! was his answer.
neither dh or I took offense to that because everything is so fubar’d. I guess you just need to be here to understand.
Now to top it off… we are unable to go by gmil because all 3 kids are sick, I have to try to get them into the doctor ALL tomorrow after school. umm ya that should be a MESS.
We are going to have mil over for supper tomorrow night so hopefully we can get more insite on what is to be expected of us after she leaves… but I dont know how much we are going to be able to do.
I am so stressed out with everything in life.
Dont you ever wish you could hide in a corner and just knit all day long (or read or whatever you enjoy).
Lord knows I have enough yarn here lol lol lol or the fiber to spin yarn.
well dh has off now from Kohler til the new year so at least I will have some help running to gmil after mil is gone.
